Collars & Calluses
Collars & Calluses is a working theology for young men where grit meets grace and faith meets the work bench, where young men can come to learn how to grow in the strength, wisdom, and courage that God calls them to. In a world confused about manhood, we open God's word and roll up our sleeves. We'll talk theology, that's not just for the classroom, but for the job site, the gym, the family table, and the front lines of life. We are about forging biblical masculinity that works in the real world, for real men, to the glory of God.
Episodes

Jan 13, 2026
Jan 13, 2026
58 min
In this episode of Collars & Calluses, Bill Smith and Rich Lusk continue their exploration of biblical manhood, focusing on the dynamics of sexual attraction, dating, and courtship. They discuss the falsehoods young men are often taught about relationships, the importance of masculine strength tempered with godliness, and the critical role of fathers in guiding daughters through courtship. They also address the challenges young men face when dealing with overprotective fathers and the pitfalls of modern dating culture. For more information, contact collarsandcalluses@gmail.com. Follow Bill at @wrs2_ and Rich at @Vicar1973 on X.

Jan 6, 2026
Jan 6, 2026
1hr 3 min
In this episode of Collars & Calluses, Bill and Rich discuss how young men can pursue and vet potential spouses by seeking the qualities of Lady Wisdom as described in Proverbs 31. They cover the challenges of the modern dating scene, the importance of confidence, and the pitfalls of self-deprecation. They also delve into understanding female hypergamy and the necessity of creating a meaningful mission in life before finding a marriage partner. For feedback, email: collarsandcalluses@gmail.com. Follow Bill on X: @wrs2_ and Rich on X: @Vicar1973

Dec 30, 2025
Dec 30, 2025
1hr 14 min
Join Bill in this special edition of Collars & Calluses, where he is joined by his sons and sons-in-law to delve into the challenges and triumphs of young men today. Together, they explore the principles of biblical masculinity, the importance of hard work, and the influence of Proverbs in their lives. Hear personal stories of marriage, career, and faith, examining the courage and resilience required to navigate modern manhood. Engage with the Collars & Calluses community by emailing collarsandcalluses@gmail.com or following Bill (@wrs2_) and Rich (@Vicar1973) on X.

Dec 23, 2025
Dec 23, 2025
1hr 13 min
In this episode of Collars & Calluses, Bill and Rich discuss the wisdom found in Proverbs, focusing on the sexual mission of young men and avoiding Harlot Folly. They explore themes of honor, consequences of sexual sin, and the importance of discipline and positive pursuits. They discuss the impact of sexual sin on both individuals and marriages, provide practical tips for avoiding temptation, and emphasize the transforming power of God’s forgiveness. The episode concludes with advice on evaluating potential spouses and maintaining strong, faithful marriages. For more insights, contact collarsandcalluses@gmail.com or follow Bill on X: @wrs2_ and Rich on X: @Vicar1973.

Dec 16, 2025
Dec 16, 2025
1hr 7 min
In this episode of Collars and Calluses, the focus is on young men's sexual mission, particularly how to fight against Harlot Folly as described in Proverbs. Hosts Rich and Bill discuss the pervasive nature of sexual temptation in modern society, noting that it manifests in various forms both online and offline. They emphasize the importance of understanding the cultural shift that has weakened traditional guards against sexual immorality and the need for personal discipline and godly wisdom to combat this pervasive challenge. The speakers highlight the necessity of community support, mentorship, and the practical application of biblical teachings to navigate and resist sexual temptations effectively. Additionally, they stress the importance of long-term thinking regarding the consequences of sexual sin and the significance of adopting a biblical worldview as foundational for moral resilience. The episode concludes with thoughts on fostering intergenerational respect and utilizing the church community for guidance and accountability.Contact: collarsandcalluses@gmail.com. Follow Bill on X: @wrs2_ and Rich on X: @Vicar1973.

Dec 9, 2025
Dec 9, 2025
56 min
In this episode of 'Collars & Calluses,' Bill Smith and Rich Lusk continue their discussion on discipline and sexual mission within the framework of Biblical masculinity. The focus is on identifying and avoiding the temptations of Harlot Folly as described in Proverbs. They emphasize the importance of understanding female nature, the impact of immodest dress, and the necessity for men to exercise self-control. The conversation also touches on the broader implications of a society that weakens men through various means, including sexual temptation. The episode serves as a cautionary guide for young men to resist sexual immorality and pursue Lady Wisdom to achieve a fulfilling life in accordance with God's design.
Email with questions or comments: collarsandcalluses@gmail.com. Or, DM Bill and Rich on X: Bill: @wrs2_ and Rich: @Vicar1973

Dec 2, 2025
Dec 2, 2025
49 min
In this episode of 'Collars & Calluses,' hosts Bill Smith and Rich Lusk discuss the topic of sexual temptation and the biblical concept of 'Harlot Folly' from the book of Proverbs. They explore how Solomon's teachings to his son emphasize the importance of choosing Lady Wisdom over Harlot Folly. The conversation includes discussions on sexual discipline, the dangers of seductive speech, flattery, and the manipulation tactics often used by temptresses. They highlight the need for men to take responsibility for their sexual decisions and to recognize and resist temptations. The episode also touches on the broader cultural implications of sexual sin and the importance of maintaining strong moral and spiritual discipline.For questions or comments, email collarsandcalluses@gmail.com or DM Bill on X : @wrs2_ and Rich on X: @Vicar1973

Nov 25, 2025
Nov 25, 2025
1hr 2 min
In this episode of Collars & Calluses, Bill Smith and Rich Lusk continue their discussion on the sexual mission, exploring the role of sexual pleasure and maturity within marriage. They delve into the importance of building physical attraction, the biblical mandate for sex within marriage, and how men can embody strength and confidence to become godly leaders. Highlighting insights from Proverbs and Song of Solomon, this episode provides practical guidance and spiritual encouragement for men seeking to grow in biblical masculinity. For inquiries and feedback, email collarsandcalluses@gmail.com. Follow Bill on X @wrs2_ and Rich @Vicar1973.

Nov 18, 2025
Nov 18, 2025
48 min
In this episode of Collars & Calluses, hosts Bill Smith (@wrs2_) and Rich Lusk (@Vicar1973) continue their discussion on the sexual mission for young men. They explore the importance of sexual discipline both within and outside of marriage, the role of sex as a bonding and covenant-renewing act, and the significance of procreation within the context of marriage. They also address the societal and biblical expectations surrounding sex and marriage, urging young men to align their sexual desires with their kingdom mission.
For more discussion, questions, or to share your thoughts, email collarsandcalluses@gmail.com.

Nov 11, 2025
Nov 11, 2025
1hr 4 min
In this episode of 'Collars & Calluses,' hosts Bill Smith and Rich Lusk discuss the sexual mission for young men in a biblically anchored life. The episode underscores the necessity of sexual discipline as a vital aspect of fulfilling one's masculine mission as outlined in the Book of Proverbs. Addressing issues ranging from the dangers of pornography and sex outside of marriage to the implications of sexual sin within marriage, the hosts emphasize the importance of personal responsibility, self-discipline, and aligning with God's design for sexuality. They argue that cultivating virtue and discipline not only benefits individual men but also fortifies the broader culture and civilization. The conversation also delves into the negative consequences of abandoning sexual restraint, such as societal decay and personal emasculation, and offers practical advice for leading a life of biblical masculinity that honors God and benefits society.
Contact: collarsandcalluses@gmail.com. Bill's X handle: @wrs2_ and Rich's X handle: @Vicar1973.
Article’s mentioned on today’s podcast:
Folk Wisdom of the Red Pillhttps://tpcpastorspage.com/2020/09/01/the-folk-wisdom-of-the-red-pill-counsel-for-todays-man/
Notes on 1 Corinthians 7:2-5https://tpcpastorspage.com/2020/09/23/notes-on-1-corinthians-72-5/
Letters to Young Menhttps://www.cornerstonereformedcrec.org/letters-to-young-men





